Time To Talk TFMR
Whether facing a decision of TFMR or having undergone a TFMR, this podcast is here to support you through your journey. We have guests every episode who either work with women and families around TFMR or who have directly experienced TFMR themselves. This podcast talks about the complexities of TFMR and all the areas of life it effects. We want this to be a place of safety, compassion and hope.
Episodes
58 episodes since 2022
TFMR: Fathers...grief and golf
Hello and welcome to today's episode. This will be our final episode for season 9, but we'll be back in the Autumn with season 10.Today, Kris joins me as we talk about his and his wife's experience of TFMR, men's grief and mental health...
August 04, 2024
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Season 9
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Episode 58
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46:51
TFMR: T21 diagnosis and supporting each other
In this episode I speak with Sara and Angela about their experience of TFMR last year for a T21 diagnosis. I really appreciate their candour about their decision making process and how they navigated this very difficult time as a couple.
July 14, 2024
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Season 9
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Episode 57
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52:55
Time To Talk TFMR: Live at Camden Arts Centre
Hello and welcome to this special episode with a live audience and panel of great expert guests, recorded at Camden Arts Centre in London.It was a really fantastic opportunity to meet some of you, our wonderful listeners, hear your stor...
June 20, 2024
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Season 9
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Episode 56
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1:07:25
TFMR: Australian Organisations Pink Elephant Support Network and Red Nose Australia
In today's episode, Hayley is speaking with Keren Ludski CEO of Red Nose Australia and Amanda Tipping, General Manager of Pink Elephant Support Network. Our first Australian episode!Keren and Amanda talk about how their organisations su...
May 26, 2024
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Season 9
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Episode 55
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54:27
Roe vs. Wade
Hello and welcome to this episode talking to four women and their experiences of TFMR just before and after the fall of Roe vs. Wade.Roe vs. Wade was the five-decade old supreme court decision to uphold a woman’s right to obtain an abor...
April 28, 2024
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Season 9
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Episode 54
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1:13:49
TFMR: Returning to Exercise with Casey Thomas Hardesty
Hello, and welcome to the start of Season 9!We're kicking it off with an epsiode about exercise. It's something that a few of you have asked for over the years, and to be honest, I've always felt mixed about. In a society that tells mot...
April 07, 2024
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Season 9
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Episode 53
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47:29
TFMR Surgical Termination with Dr Rachel Foggin
Hello, and Happy New Year!In today's episode I am speaking with Dr Rachel Foggin from BPAS (British Pregnancy Advisory Service...
January 07, 2024
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Season 8
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Episode 52
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44:43
TFMR Fathers (North America)
Thank you for joining us today. In this episode, Nick Embleton (consultant neonatologist) joins me as co-host for this episode talking to a group of Fathers about men's grief after TFMR. The Fathers joining us are Brian, Kenne...
December 17, 2023
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Season 8
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Episode 51
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1:11:42
TFMR: Antenatal Results & Choices - 35th Anniversary with Jane Fisher
In today's episode, I'm speaking with Jane Fisher, the Director of Antenatal Results and Choices (ARC). It's ARC's 35th anniversary this year and we thought it's be a good idea to hear from Jane about ARC's history, why it was created, how and ...
November 28, 2023
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Season 8
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Episode 50
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44:45
TFMR: PAL with Natasha Williams
Today joining me to talk about pregnancy after loss is Natasha Williams. Natasha is a highly experienced CBT and EMDR trained Psychotherapist, who has over 20 years’ experience of working with women and their partners. She specialises in workin...
November 05, 2023
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Season 8
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Episode 49
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49:14
TFMR Fathers (Maternal Health)
In today's episode, I'm talking with two dad's who have gone through the experience of TFMR due to their partner's health. Avi from Western Canada and Jack from the UK join me, and my visiting co-host, Consultant Neonatologist, Nick Embleton, d...
October 15, 2023
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Season 8
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Episode 48
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49:25
TFMR: Returning to Working with Alannah Ross
Alannah Ross, from We Seek Care, joins me in today's episode talking about returning to work after having a TFMR. Alannah had an abortion nine years ago and found she struggled both physically, mentally and emotionally afterwards. Feeli...
September 24, 2023
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Season 8
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Episode 47
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36:02
TFMR: T21 Down Syndrome with Emma Parsons
Welcome to today's episode: TFMR for a T21 (Down Syndrome) diagnosis with Emma Parsons. Emma had her TFMR in 2009. After having her 20 week anatomy scan, she was informed there was a high chance her son, Isaac, had T21. This ...
September 03, 2023
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Season 8
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Episode 46
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44:50
TFMR Fathers (UK)
Welcome to today's episode: TFMR Fathers.I'm so grateful that four dads were willing to come and speak with us. I also had an awesome guest co-host this episode, consultant neonatologist Nick Embleton.Our four dads are:Alex,...
May 14, 2023
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Season 7
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Episode 45
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1:07:10
TTC after TFMR with Julianne Boutaleb
Hello, and welcome to today's episode.I’m joined by Julianne Boutaleb of Parenthood in Mind. Julianne is a Chartered perinatal psychologist, with over 20 years in the NHS and private practise. We’re discussing trying to conceive...
April 23, 2023
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Season 7
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Episode 44
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56:12
TFMR Research - What Parents' Need with Suzie Heaney
Hello and welcome!In today's episode I'm speaking with Suzie Heaney. Suzie is a midwife and holds a Phd from Queen's University Belfast. She carried out research (called The Bluebell Study) looking into the healthcare needs of women and...
April 09, 2023
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Season 7
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Episode 43
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54:15
Sex & Intimacy After TFMR with Petal's Director Karen Burgess
In today's episode, I'm speaking with Karen Burgess from Petal's Baby Loss Counselling Charity and Sally Kelly, a specialist midwife in bereavement care, about returning to sex and/or intim...
March 25, 2023
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Season 7
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Episode 42
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47:20
TFMR: Secondary Infertility with Psychotherapist Tracy Gilmore-Nimoy
Hello, and welcome to the start of season 7!Today I'm speaking with Tracy Gilmore-Nimoy. Tracy is a psychotherapist based in California, USA. She had her own 3rd trimester TFMR three years ago. The difficult labour ended up seeing Tracy...
March 05, 2023
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Season 7
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Episode 41
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42:14
TFMR: Christmas & Other Celebrations with Suzie Jay Goldsmith
Hello and welcome to our last episode of 2022.I'm speaking with Suzie Jay Goldsmith, photographer, mentor, author and mum. Suzie had two TFMRs , and after her second one, she decided to write a book exploring how creativity can help us ...
December 18, 2022
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Season 6
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Episode 40
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59:27
TFMR: Maternal Health with Rachel and Georgia
In today's episode I'm talking with two women, Rachel and Georgia, about their TFMRs for maternal health reasons.Rachel had a TFMR due to preeclampsia and HELLP syndrome and Georgia experienced an 'eccentric' pregnancy and Asherman's Sy...
December 04, 2022
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Season 6
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Episode 39
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1:12:13
TFMR: Genetic Counselling with Dagmar Tapon and Jane Fisher
Hello! In today's episode, we're talking with Dagmar Tapon, a genetic counsellor and Jane Fisher, Director of Antenatal Results and Choices, about genetic counselling.We talk about the technical stuff, like the difference between genes ...
November 22, 2022
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Season 6
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Episode 38
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56:09
TFMR: Disability & Abortion
Hello, and welcome to today's episode.Our guest is Mara Clarke. Mara is an abortion activist, mum and disabled woman. She founded Abortion Support Network which supports those who need to travel for an abortion from across Europe....
October 30, 2022
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Season 6
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Episode 37
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56:50
TFMR: Friendship
Hello! And welcome to Season 6!Today's episode is all about how our friends can support us through TFMR and beyond.We're really grateful to Jess and Atiya for coming on and discussing their experience so openly. This i...
October 09, 2022
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Season 6
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Episode 36
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54:25
TFMR: Well-being
Today we're speaking with Lucy Livesey again, all about well-being, including mindfulness meditation, for those going through baby loss.Lucy is a mental health nurse, hypnobirthing instructor, mindfulness teacher. She and her husband Ric...
July 28, 2022
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Season 5
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Episode 35
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42:43
TFMR: Stopping TTC
In today's episode we hear from Janelle Ramsey. Janelle is a befriender for SANDS Leeds and runs a support group for parents who, for them, their baby who died is there last child. This could either be because a decision has been ma...
July 10, 2022
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Season 5
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Episode 34
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40:58